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The Hindu : Marriage, an institution which has survived the test of time thus far, the coming together of two people united in love vowing to be there for each other in good times and in bad, has begun to look vulnerable with cracks emerging all too soon (sometimes within a day of tying the knot) and the changing societal fabric necessitating a whole new look at this life-altering event in one’s life.

What do men expect from marriage?

Alex, a real estate fund manager in a private equity company says: “I expect companionship and complete mutual trust. For that to happen my spouse and I need to be on a similar wavelength especially on issues such as career, work-life balance and raising children.”

On research analyst Nikunj Agarwal’s wish list is “total understanding, commitment, respect, appreciation, love and care” rank high. For Joel Vasanth who heads HR in an MNC, “A simple girl, practical and able to handle situations, fun loving (good looks are a bonus)” would do nicely. She doesn’t have to be an excellent cook nor does she have to say I love you all the time - but only has to show it in action,” he adds. Arvind, project manager in a software company says, “I would want my spouse to be my best friend.”

Being far away from home, Anil Gurwara, an engineer is looking for a friend in his future partner. “At least I won’t have to think of what to do during the weekend and life will settle into a more organised routine.” The young men of today are not only willing to give their future partners space (as Alex says, “Petty differences will arise because of the fatigue of being around each other all the time”) they also don’t think twice about sharing housework. However, they are alive to the fact that marriage is no bed of roses with the spouses agreeing…More